Posts Tagged ‘Collaborative Divorce’
Legal Agreements That Can Help Address Betrayal and Trust Issues in Your Marriage
Betrayal is one of the most common reasons for the breakdown of marriages and it can take many forms. Whether it’s financial betrayal, which might involve hidden bank accounts, unpaid taxes, or large, undisclosed expenditures, or physical betrayal, which could mean a 1-night stand or an ongoing secret relationship, the emotional toll is significant. Trust…
Read MoreNavigating Divorce When Your Child is Questioning their Gender or Transitioning with Emily Malloy
A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 58 In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Emily Malloy. Emily is an attorney and social worker who practices primarily as a parent and divorce coach and family mediator. She focuses on supporting parents in their relationships with their children so…
Read MoreDivorce and the Sandwich Generation: Balancing Family Caregiving and Divorce Stress
If you’re part of the “sandwich” generation—adults caught between commitments to children as well as parents—the responsibilities can feel endless and overwhelming. These pressures can also fuel conflicts between you and your spouse. We often see these conflicts lead to divorce when they are not effectively handled, which only stretches your time, finances, and emotions…
Read MoreHow to Divorce a Narcissist in New York
When you are in a divorce process with a narcissist there are some unique challenges. Narcissists manipulate situations, create conflict, and put their needs above others, this makes the divorce process more emotionally draining. How you approach these challenges can help you protect yourself and your children while working toward a healthier future. Here are…
Read MoreHow to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce
The decision to tell your spouse you want a divorce is never an easy step, but planning and thoughtful communication can help you handle the conversation respectfully and clearly. Here are some tips to guide you through this delicate process. Understand the Dynamics of Your Relationship Before having this sensitive conversation, reflect on the dynamics…
Read MoreHow to Divorce in a Way That Preserves a Relationship With Your Spouse and Protects Your Children
How you divorce matters. In divorce, emotions run high, and it is tempting to use past grievances as leverage. However, if you want to protect your children’s well-being and maintain a civil relationship with your soon-to-be ex-spouse, how you approach the divorce process will make all the difference. Choosing a non-adversarial approach over a traditional,…
Read MoreHow to Achieve a Win-Win in Your Divorce
Based on all the horror stories you’ve heard about divorce, the idea of it being a win-win outcome for you and your spouse might seem like an impossible idea. However, aiming for this sort of outcome in divorce can mean that both of you can feel satisfied with the final agreement. That doesn’t mean you…
Read More5 Mistakes to Avoid in a High Net Worth Divorce
A high-net-worth divorce requires careful attention to the details of your case. For our purposes, let’s assume a high-net-worth divorce involves at least $3 million in assets, not including the value of your home. With millions at stake, even minor missteps can have significant financial repercussions. Here are some common mistakes to avoid to protect…
Read MoreWhy Do I Need a Lawyer for Mediation?
Many clients come to us for mediation with the assumption (and hope) that they will not need to use lawyers in the process. We quickly let them know that in a mediated divorce, having an attorney with whom to consult will not only help you make informed decisions during the process, but will also protect…
Read MoreHow to Manage the Holidays During a Divorce
The holiday season can feel particularly tough when you’re going through a divorce. The stress of maintaining family traditions, managing emotions, and keeping things as normal as possible for your children can feel overwhelming. But with thoughtful planning, you can work through this period and have a holiday season that is joyful for both you…
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