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Divorce Options in New York: Collaborative, Mediation, Negotiation, and Litigation Explained
If you are planning to get divorced in New York, it is important to know that you have more choices than just going to court. Each option for divorce offers different methods to resolve issues like property division, child custody, child support, and spousal support. Some divorce processes allow for more flexibility and control, while…
Read MoreHow Positive Psychology Can Help You Have a More Empowering Divorce
A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 60 In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca discusses the role Positive Psychology plays in having a better, more empowering divorce. Tune in to the episode to hear about: What Positive Psychology is, how it differs from traditional psychology, and how Andrea uses its…
Read MoreHow to Prepare for Divorce: 6 Tips for a Smoother Process
How you prepare for your divorce can help to make things go more smoothly. Taking some simple steps now can give you a clearer plan and make the divorce process less stressful. Here are six key steps to think about before you begin the divorce process. 1) Identify Key Areas of Agreement and Disagreement The…
Read More5 Legal and Financial Risks of Unofficial Marital Separation: Why a Formal Interim Agreement is Crucial
In my practice as a Mediator and Collaborative Divorce attorney, I frequently encounter couples who have been living apart for extended periods without a formal legal separation. While this may seem like a simple solution, many couples discover years later when one partner decides to file for divorce that the lack of an interim agreement…
Read MoreHow to Help a Friend Going Through Divorce with Dr. Ann Gold Buscho
A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 59 In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca welcomes back Dr. Ann Gold Buscho to provide our listeners with valuable tips on how to best support a friend during their divorce—and how not to. As a semi-retired Clinical Psychologist and Collaborative Divorce Coach, Dr.…
Read MoreLegal Agreements That Can Help Address Betrayal and Trust Issues in Your Marriage
Betrayal is one of the most common reasons for the breakdown of marriages and it can take many forms. Whether it’s financial betrayal, which might involve hidden bank accounts, unpaid taxes, or large, undisclosed expenditures, or physical betrayal, which could mean a 1-night stand or an ongoing secret relationship, the emotional toll is significant. Trust…
Read MoreNavigating Divorce When Your Child is Questioning their Gender or Transitioning with Emily Malloy
A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 58 In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Emily Malloy. Emily is an attorney and social worker who practices primarily as a parent and divorce coach and family mediator. She focuses on supporting parents in their relationships with their children so…
Read MoreDivorce and the Sandwich Generation: Balancing Family Caregiving and Divorce Stress
If you’re part of the “sandwich” generation—adults caught between commitments to children as well as parents—the responsibilities can feel endless and overwhelming. These pressures can also fuel conflicts between you and your spouse. We often see these conflicts lead to divorce when they are not effectively handled, which only stretches your time, finances, and emotions…
Read MoreHow to Divorce a Narcissist in New York
When you are in a divorce process with a narcissist there are some unique challenges. Narcissists manipulate situations, create conflict, and put their needs above others, this makes the divorce process more emotionally draining. How you approach these challenges can help you protect yourself and your children while working toward a healthier future. Here are…
Read MoreHow to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce
The decision to tell your spouse you want a divorce is never an easy step, but planning and thoughtful communication can help you handle the conversation respectfully and clearly. Here are some tips to guide you through this delicate process. Understand the Dynamics of Your Relationship Before having this sensitive conversation, reflect on the dynamics…
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