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Positive Psychology in Divorce – Part 4: The “Good Enough” Agreement
When you’re going through a divorce, it is natural to want everything to go your way. But chasing perfection in the outcome often leads to disappointment, higher costs, and emotional strain. Embracing the concept of a “good enough” agreement can…
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Positive Psychology in Divorce – Part 3: Learning to Be Resilient
Divorce can feel like your life has shattered into countless pieces, leaving you unsure of how to move forward. However, it is during these tough times that resilience can become your greatest ally. Learning to be resilient can help you…
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Positive Psychology in Divorce – Part 2: Focusing on Your Strengths
Rather than focusing on a person’s weaknesses and trying to “fix” them, Positive Psychology focuses on how a person’s strengths can be used as a buffer against difficulties in life and as a way to create positive well-being. Strengths are…
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Positive Psychology in Divorce – Part 1: Having a Growth Mindset
As we explained in an earlier post, Positive Psychology is the scientific study of well-being, happiness, and what helps people to thrive as opposed to just survive. Because I’m a student of Positive Psychology and a soon-to-be certified coach in…
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5 Key Concepts of Positive Psychology for a Better Divorce Experience
Divorce can be a time for growth and transformation. At Vacca Family Law Group, we are passionate about Collaborative Divorce because it is a constructive approach to divorce, emphasizing mutual respect and open communication. My journey into Positive Psychology has…
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The Family Pet: Sharing Custody After Your Divorce
You are getting a divorce, and you know you need to deal with the division of assets, liabilities, and spousal support. If you have children, the issues of a parenting plan and child support will certainly be discussed. But what…
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How Collaborative Divorce Helps to Prioritize Your Children’s Well-Being
If one of your priorities in your divorce is to ensure the well-being of your children, you need to consider the Collaborative Divorce process. Collaborative Divorce offers a more amicable, respectful, and child-focused alternative to traditional adversarial divorce and more…
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How To Talk To Your Children About Your Divorce
If you have children and are planning to divorce, it is important to carefully think about how you will talk to them about the decisions you and your spouse have made and the changes that will lie ahead. Children are…
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What is Nesting in Divorce?
Nesting, also known as bird nesting, is a unique co-parenting arrangement that can be an excellent short-term solution for families working through the early stages of separation or divorce. In this arrangement, the children stay in the family home (the…
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Divorcing When Your Child is Questioning Their Gender or Sexuality
Divorcing when your child is questioning their gender or sexuality can present unique challenges because just as you and your spouse are navigating difficult but relatively standard financial and child-related issues, you may find yourselves also facing difficult emotions and…
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My Spouse Came Out of the Closet – Now What?
If you’re reading this blog, you may have found yourself in a situation you never expected. You married someone you thought you knew, only to have them reveal a truth about themselves that shakes the very foundation of your relationship.…
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Financial Considerations for Couples in Polyamorous and Open Marriages
Deciding to marry is a significant milestone in life, filled with joy, excitement, and sometimes, a bit of uncertainty. For polyamorous couples and those who plan to have open marriages, taking this step can be uniquely challenging, particularly when it…
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