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“Nesting”: A Creative Living Option for Divorced Spouses with Children

By Andrea Vacca

Please enjoy this guest blog post by Laura Rolnick, Esq. On top of the financial and emotional aspects of dissolving a marriage, divorcing couples with children must also consider the very important question of where they will live, and where…

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Attention Friends And Family: This Is Not Your Divorce!

By Andrea Vacca

People going through divorce often feel angry, confused, and alone. They turn to their friends and family when they are contemplating divorce, in the middle of a divorce and all throughout the process.  In fact, I often get calls from…

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Celebrity Couples are Becoming Role Models for Amicable Divorces

By Andrea Vacca

What looks like just another celebrity breakup might actually be instructive for any divorcing couple. Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner are going the way of Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin in choosing a non-adversarial way to divorce while living in…

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Having a High Net Worth Doesn’t Have to Lead to a High Conflict Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

A high-net-worth couple going through a divorce can benefit greatly by staying out of court. Couples with considerable assets (which I will define here as more than $5 million) are often lead to believe that their divorce will be a “no…

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Putting Compassion At The Center Of Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

Even when spouses are trying to have a non-adversarial divorce, the emotions that arise can hijack innocent intentions and get in the way of achieving the bigger goals such as the children’s well being, future financial security for one another…

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CAUTION: Don’t Text While Divorcing

By Andrea Vacca

I was recently sitting at my desk when I received a text message from a phone number I didn’t recognize. In rapid succession I received the following missives: This person, who was obviously in distress around a family law matter…

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Will Your Divorce Be a War Story or a Peace Story?

By Andrea Vacca

As I picked up The New York State Bar Association Journal earlier in the month, the cover story intrigued me. It was called “More War Stories from the New York Courts.” It was about civil litigation cases that go on for years.…

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Sometimes the Solution Is Right in Front of You

By Andrea Vacca

I recently decided it was time to give my website a makeover. My website designer and I decided that blue would be a primary color in the design and she asked me to send her shades of blue that appealed…

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The Choice Is Yours

By Andrea Vacca

Sometimes people in the middle of divorce litigation realize that the court system just isn’t working for them. Time is going by, the costs are piling up, and they seem further from resolution than ever. At this point, it may…

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Nobody Is Perfect, Especially in the Middle of Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

Divorce is one of the most difficult life experiences that anyone can go through. And while the clients who I work with are all committed to having the least adversarial divorce possible, it’s not always easy for them to find it…

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The Important Role of Divorce Coaches

By Andrea Vacca

“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”– Maria Robinson As true as this quote may be, it’s not easy to think about re-writing your future when you’re in…

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Plan to Have a Great Marriage

By Andrea Vacca

I recently read an article on The New York Times wellness blog by Tara Parker-Pope called ‘The Decisive Marriage.’ In it, Parker-Pope explores the research gathered through The National Marriage Project and asks how does being decisive – or not – affect…

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