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Divorce Without Court: A More Peaceful Solution – New eBook

By Andrea Vacca

New eBook by Andrea Vacca: Divorce Without Court: A More Peaceful Solution Do you assume divorce pits one spouse against the other, resulting in a nasty battle where no one actually wins and children are the collateral damage? When most…

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5 Reasons Why You May Want A Postnuptial Agreement

By Andrea Vacca

Postnuptial agreements are contracts that are signed during the marriage. These are often entered into when there has been some sort of change in the marital relationship or financial circumstances that causes one or both parties to seek more financial security…

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How to Reduce the Costs of Your Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

Divorce in New York can be expensive and this is especially true if there are complicated issues involved regarding finances or your children. But there are things you can do to keep the costs down. I recently contributed to a…

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How to Get Divorced When Your Spouse Doesn’t Want to End the Marriage

By Andrea Vacca

In most divorces, both spouses are aware that the marriage is ending and they decide what process they will use to reach an agreement, such as using mediation or the collaborative process. In other divorces, however, there has not been a meeting of…

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Gray Divorce and the Benefits of a Divorce Team

By Andrea Vacca

People divorcing after the age of 50, often called grey divorce, recognize that they have some different financial and emotional issues not faced in younger couples who divorce. As I wrote earlier, navigating a grey divorce with dignity is often an essential…

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The Bezos Effect: The Future of Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

As a collaborative divorce lawyer in New York, headlines announcing the Bezos divorce settlement gave me hope for the future of divorce – and the future of marriages in the US.  Since the news first made headlines in January that…

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Navigating Your Grey Divorce with Dignity

By Andrea Vacca

Baby Boomer divorce rates continue to be above the average with one in every four divorces occurring in this age group. When I first wrote about so-called “grey divorce” (also referred to as ‘gray divorce’) in 2012, the overall divorce…

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High Net Worth Divorce Alternatives

By Andrea Vacca

Divorcing couples who have high assets – a high-net-worth divorce – are exposed to considerable risk if they litigate their divorce. Divorce proceedings are part of the public record: that means observers, including the press, are allowed in the courtroom. While you…

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4 Common Myths About Collaborative Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

In our last blog post, we explained what each member of the collaborative divorce team does, However, because collaborative divorce is relatively new when compared to traditional, litigated divorce and mediation, there are some misconceptions and myths about how the process…

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What Is A Collaborative Divorce Team?

By Andrea Vacca

Many people who are familiar with traditional divorce may not understand when you say you are considering a collaborative divorce. One aspect of the process that sets it apart from others is the fact that it enlists a team of specialized…

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Jeff Bezos and Justin Bieber Don’t Have Prenuptial Agreements: Do You?

By Andrea Vacca

Recent headlines announced that Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos’ 25-year marriage is ending. He and his wife are the wealthiest couple in the world with a net worth of approximately $137 billion, and reportedly never signed a prenup. It’s also reported…

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Not Planning to Marry After Having a Baby? What to Know About Parenting and Child Support Agreements

By Andrea Vacca

Today almost half of all births in the United States occur outside of marriage. This is the new normal but the law hasn’t necessarily caught up. Laws vary by state on parental rights for non-married parents. In New York, biological parents do…

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