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Divorce and the Sandwich Generation: Balancing Family Caregiving and Divorce Stress
If you’re part of the “sandwich” generation—adults caught between commitments to children as well as parents—the responsibilities can feel endless and overwhelming. These pressures can also fuel conflicts between you and your spouse. We often see these conflicts lead to…
Read MoreHow to Divorce a Narcissist in New York
When you are in a divorce process with a narcissist there are some unique challenges. Narcissists manipulate situations, create conflict, and put their needs above others, this makes the divorce process more emotionally draining. How you approach these challenges can…
Read MoreHow to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce
The decision to tell your spouse you want a divorce is never an easy step, but planning and thoughtful communication can help you handle the conversation respectfully and clearly. Here are some tips to guide you through this delicate process.…
Read MoreHow to Divorce in a Way That Preserves a Relationship With Your Spouse and Protects Your Children
How you divorce matters. In divorce, emotions run high, and it is tempting to use past grievances as leverage. However, if you want to protect your children’s well-being and maintain a civil relationship with your soon-to-be ex-spouse, how you approach…
Read MoreHigh-Conflict Divorce? Who Says You Need to Go to Court?
When people think about divorce, they often think a court battle is inevitable, especially in a high-conflict situation. But the truth is, even if you and your spouse can’t seem to agree on anything, court is not your only option.…
Read MoreWhat is Equitable Distribution in New York?
Equitable distribution is the system that is used to decide how property is divided between spouses in a New York divorce. The most important thing to know is that equitable doesn’t always mean equal. Let’s break down what else equitable…
Read MoreHow to Achieve a Win-Win in Your Divorce
Based on all the horror stories you’ve heard about divorce, the idea of it being a win-win outcome for you and your spouse might seem like an impossible idea. However, aiming for this sort of outcome in divorce can mean…
Read MoreLessons on Prenups from Celebrity Marriages: J-Lo, Renee Zellweger, and More
When Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck tied the knot, it made headlines that they chose not to have a prenuptial agreement. Adding to the conversation about prenups is actress Renee Zellweger, who is reportedly considering marrying her partner Ant Anstead…
Read MoreThe Role of the Attorney in a Collaborative Divorce
Collaborative Divorce is a non-adversarial approach to ending a marriage that focuses on cooperation rather than conflict. A traditional litigated/courtroom divorce pits spouses against each other, while Collaborative Divorce allows you to work together toward a mutually beneficial resolution. Your…
Read More5 Mistakes to Avoid in a High Net Worth Divorce
A high-net-worth divorce requires careful attention to the details of your case. For our purposes, let’s assume a high-net-worth divorce involves at least $3 million in assets, not including the value of your home. With millions at stake, even minor…
Read MoreWhy Do I Need a Lawyer for Mediation?
Many clients come to us for mediation with the assumption (and hope) that they will not need to use lawyers in the process. We quickly let them know that in a mediated divorce, having an attorney with whom to consult…
Read MoreHow to Manage the Holidays During a Divorce
The holiday season can feel particularly tough when you’re going through a divorce. The stress of maintaining family traditions, managing emotions, and keeping things as normal as possible for your children can feel overwhelming. But with thoughtful planning, you can…
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