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High-Conflict Divorce

High-Conflict Divorce? Who Says You Need to Go to Court?

By Andrea Vacca

When people think about divorce, they often think a court battle is inevitable, especially in a high-conflict situation. But the truth is, even if you and your spouse can’t seem to agree on anything, court is not your only option.…

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Equitable Distribution

What is Equitable Distribution in New York?

By Andrea Vacca

Equitable distribution is the system that is used to decide how property is divided between spouses in a New York divorce. The most important thing to know is that equitable doesn’t always mean equal. Let’s break down what else equitable…

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How to Achieve a Win-Win in Your Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

Based on all the horror stories you’ve heard about divorce, the idea of it being a win-win outcome for you and your spouse might seem like an impossible idea. However, aiming for this sort of outcome in divorce can mean…

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Lessons on Prenups from Celebrity Marriages: J-Lo, Renee Zellweger, and More

By Vacca Family Law Group

When Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck tied the knot, it made headlines that they chose not to have a prenuptial agreement. Adding to the conversation about prenups is actress Renee Zellweger, who is reportedly considering marrying her partner Ant Anstead…

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The Role of the Attorney in a Collaborative Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

Collaborative Divorce is a non-adversarial approach to ending a marriage that focuses on cooperation rather than conflict. A traditional litigated/courtroom divorce pits spouses against each other, while Collaborative Divorce allows you to work together toward a mutually beneficial resolution. Your…

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5 Mistakes to Avoid in a High Net Worth Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

A high-net-worth divorce requires careful attention to the details of your case. For our purposes, let’s assume a high-net-worth divorce involves at least $3 million in assets, not including the value of your home. With millions at stake, even minor…

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Why Do I Need a Lawyer for Mediation?

By Andrea Vacca

Many clients come to us for mediation with the assumption (and hope) that they will not need to use lawyers in the process. We quickly let them know that in a mediated divorce, having an attorney with whom to consult…

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How to Manage the Holidays During a Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

The holiday season can feel particularly tough when you’re going through a divorce. The stress of maintaining family traditions, managing emotions, and keeping things as normal as possible for your children can feel overwhelming. But with thoughtful planning, you can…

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Co-Parenting During Hanukkah

By Andrea Vacca

Hanukkah, the Festival of Lights, is a time for family, tradition, and joy. However, if you are divorced and working through co-parenting issues during this eight-day celebration, you might wonder how to split or share the holiday in a way…

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Divorce and Separation

5 Tips for the Holidays After Divorce or Separation

By Andrea Vacca

Deciding how to share parenting time around Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah, and New Year’s often involve many conversations and could be challenging to a couple that is divorcing. What you may not have considered during the divorce is how you will…

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Co-Parenting

Co-Parenting During Halloween: Making Trick-or-Treating Fun for Everyone

By Andrea Vacca

When you are separated or divorced, managing Halloween can be tricky. Halloween is an exciting time for children, filled with costumes, candy, and the thrill of trick-or-treating. Both parents often want to share in the fun, especially when the children…

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Attention Friends and Family: Here’s How You Can Support a Loved One Through Their Divorce

By Andrea Vacca

People going through divorce often feel angry, confused, and alone. When someone you care about is going through a divorce, it’s natural to want to help. While your intentions are good, it’s important to understand how your words and actions…

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